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Andrew Wille's avatar

This is so beautiful. The tiles 😭 all of it. The photos! The flash photography makes you and Nate look YOUNGER than when I knew you nearly ten years before!

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Alexandra Hidalgo's avatar

Thank you! The tiles were always a big defining part of our 1980s kitchen, so it was nuts when they changed.

I guess there are some benefits to flash photography. Ha ha!

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Nina Kentsis's avatar

Loved this essay, Alex! It was very moving.

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Alexandra Hidalgo's avatar

Thank you so much!!! I hope you were feted and celebrated this mother's day. Your first as a published author too! How exciting!

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Anna Radzinski's avatar

Happy mother’s day! I hope you have a lovely weekend with your family!

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Alexandra Hidalgo's avatar

Thanks! And I hope you have a wonderful Sunday with your mom! I'm sure she's thrilled to have you there for the summer.

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Nathaniel Bowler's avatar

Mothers and Godmothers and Mothers-in-Law. She's a good one. As good as it gets. She loves asparagus, and I'll make her asparagus anytime, anywhere.

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Alexandra Hidalgo's avatar

You can write the asparagus tribute! I like it!

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Annette Vee's avatar

I love the way you connect your own mother to your mothering to godmothering to academic mothering. Your words and pictures tell a beautiful story!

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Alexandra Hidalgo's avatar

Awe. Thank you! We can mother and be mothered in so many ways. I was hoping to do capture some of that. You know this well being a mother too!

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Natalie D.C.'s avatar

What a lovely ode to mothers everywhere! Happy Mother's Day!

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Alexandra Hidalgo's avatar

Yes!!!! Thanks! Happy mothers day to our mothers, godmothers, academic mothers, and maternal figures all around!

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